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Creating an Action Plan That Actually Sticks
You ever notice how easy it is to start something new— but so much harder to keep it going? In the last blog post, we talked about what it takes to just start— how to move through that wall of resistance and train your system to begin, even when it feels impossible. This one picks up right where that left off. Because once you’ve started, the real challenge begins: staying consistent long enough for change to take root.
Today, we’re looking at how to turn early momentum into steady follow-thr…
Just Start (Even When It Feels Impossible)
You ever notice how the hardest part of doing something big… is just starting?
That simple act of beginning — sending the email, making the call, walking into the gym — can feel way heavier than it logically should.
Today we’re talking about what’s really happening underneath that resistance. Why the smallest step can feel impossible… and how training your inner state changes everything.
And this is really part one of a bigger conversation.
Because once you can start — once you break th…
You Can’t Change Someone Who Doesn’t Choose to Grow
You know, a question I get all the time sounds something like this: “I think your program would be perfect for my brother… or my sister… or my friend. Can I gift it to them?” And I always smile, because I get it. You see someone you care about stuck in a loop—stressed, reactive, repeating the same patterns—and you just want them to feel the relief or clarity you’ve found. But here’s the thing… You can’t train someone who hasn’t chosen to train.
Today we’re talking about something that can…
How to Stop Walking on Eggshells in Your Relationship
You ever feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells around someone you love?
Afraid to say the wrong thing or trigger the next reaction?
That quiet tension builds.
You stop being fully yourself.
And little by little, the relationship starts to feel smaller than it could be.
Today, I want to unpack what’s really happening underneath that “walking on eggshells” pattern—
because it’s not about fixing the other person’s behavior.
It’s about training your own emotional state so you can…
The Emotional Reason Teachers Appear—and Disappear
You’ve heard the line—“When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” But what if that teacher isn’t a person sitting across from you? What if it’s life itself — showing up through moments that challenge you, stretch you, and call you out of who you’ve been?
Sometimes it looks like the person who pushes your buttons. Sometimes it’s a disappointment that forces you to grow. And sometimes, it’s silence — life not giving you what you want, so you can finally hear what you need. The quest…
When Your Emotions Start Running the Show
You ever notice how some emotions feel like they just take over? You tell yourself to stay calm, but inside, there’s this undercurrent of frustration or disgust running the show. What most people don’t realize is, emotions aren’t just reactions. They’re trained patterns, built over time, shaping how you see, think, and act. And once you start noticing which emotions you’re actually training each day, you can begin retraining them.
Today we’re unpacking what happens when emotions quietly start…
Why Your Mind Believes What You Feel (Not What You Think)
You ever notice how two people can go through the exact same event… and walk away with totally different memories of what happened? Same facts. Same moment. But one remembers it as proof they’re capable — and the other remembers it as proof they’re not enough. Why does that happen? And more importantly — how do you start shaping what your mind keeps and what it lets go of?
Today I want to unpack something both neuroscience and emotional training agree on — that it’s not the event itsel…
Stop Training Unworthiness and Grow Real Confidence
You can hit every goal, check every box… and still end up lying in bed at night with that quiet thought: It’s not enough.
Why does that voice never shut off? Why does it keep finding new evidence, no matter how much you accomplish? That’s what we’re going to get into today.
This conversation is about that constant sense of falling short. Where it actually comes from… and how to stop reinforcing it. Because here’s the truth: unworthiness isn’t built into you. It’s practiced. And once yo…
Why You Don’t Do What You Say You’ll Do
You ever notice how sometimes the thing you say you want most… is also the thing you quietly avoid? You tell yourself you’ll start. You’ll study. You’ll do the work. But somehow — the dishes, the scrolling, the emails — all feel more urgent. And it’s confusing, right? Because you know you’re capable. You just can’t seem to make yourself do it.
Today, I want to unpack what’s really happening underneath that pattern — because it’s not laziness, and it’s not lack of discipline. It’s usu…
Glass Half Empty? Train It Into Steady Focus, Not Burnout
You ever feel like you’re wired to see what’s missing? Like no matter how good things get… your mind scans for the gap. Most people think that’s a flaw. But here’s the thing: it’s not a bug. It can be a lever. If you train it.
What I want to share today is simple: The very same internal tension that makes you restless, critical, or anxious—can also be the energy that drives consistency, achievement, and deep alignment. The difference isn’t the feeling itself. It’s how you train it.